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 Many women who have turned 45 believe that trying to arrange a personal life through online dating will be a waste of time. After all, on dating sites you can find many slender beauties, full of all the beauty of youth! Perhaps you still plucked up the courage, registered on the site, started communicating with representatives of the opposite sex and made sure that not all men are focused on twenty-year-old girls.
But disappointment still followed.
You may have received nasty messages from questionable individuals. Maybe they made acquaintance with a person who seemed to be the embodiment of the ideal, had intimate conversations on the phone, even met several times ... but then he stopped communicating. Either way, online dating seemed like an inappropriate way to expand your social circle.
Alas, at the moment you have no idea when the next date will be, and instead of looking for love, you wait for it to find you.
Of course, there is still an opportunity to meet the perfect man while shopping at the supermarket. Why not? True, the likelihood of such a development of events is approximately equal to the chances of winning a million by buying a lottery ticket once a month. If you want to meet someone who will become a worthy husband, you have to put in a little effort. Think about the result you expected when registering on a dating site, and whether you made any typical mistakes.
1.We completed the questionnaire in 10 minutes, creating a profile that absolutely did not reflect your personality.
2.They expected that only smart, independent, wealthy men with a serious attitude towards you would write to you. Why waste time looking through posts from people you don't care about?
3.Were set up for an instant meeting. Correspondence and phone calls are not for you.
4.They believed that on the very first date you will meet the embodiment of perfection, beautiful both externally and internally. You do not need to communicate for a long time, get to know a man better. If this is the one in front of you, you will immediately feel it!
5.You were sure that after the first meeting, you both would delete the profiles, start a serious relationship and soon get married.
If this was the case, then the disappointment is not surprising. This ideal scenario has nothing to do with life. It will take time to find a worthy person. Love cannot be found in 30 days. You need to understand that you will spend many hours communicating with men who are trying to strike up an easy affair and are not ready for a relationship. You will likely become attached to someone who will not reciprocate. Then meet someone who falls head over heels in love with you, but will not arouse interest.
And only then will you meet your other half. You will begin to rejoice that you did not give up. You will value the relationship, because you had to invest a lot of time and effort in order to find this particular person. You may have to endure 30 unsuccessful dates. Or maybe only 3. Finding harmony in your personal life is not easy, but it is the effort spent that makes it so valuable. Therefore, do not give up and remember that the road will be mastered by the one walking.
Nikolaeva S.N.
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