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 The days when, without fail, a man was a breadwinner, and a woman was the keeper of the family hearth, are irrevocably gone. Nowadays women are becoming more and more independent and independent.
We will not talk about whether this is good, this is just a well-known fact. Women are more adapted to life, they are more flexible than men. This explains the appearance of male housewives. The housewife husband performs female functions in the house, protects the family hearth, while the wife earns money.
There are several reasons for this situation. First, a man can act as a housewife temporarily. And then this is a perfectly acceptable norm. It is not bad if a man devotes a lot of time to his family, home and children. The reasons for such a temporary situation may be some kind of health problems, dismissal from work and the search for a new position, or if the wife's salary exceeds the husband's salary, then the man may be on maternity leave to care for a child. Such men cause only respect, because they are trying to temporarily make life easier for children and their wife.
Secondly, a man can be a housewife simply by vocation. Sometimes it happens. And if the wife is satisfied with this state of affairs, then this is also a variant of the norm. In fact, there are men who love to clean, cook, take care of children and enjoy it. At the same time, the woman earns money for the whole family. Coming home, she does not need to run to the stove, start cleaning and check the lessons of the children.
But it must be remembered that in this situation, you should not be surprised if your wife drinks beer with her friends, go to a bar or a bathhouse. And such husbands-housewives are the most important representatives of henpecked ones, who were nailed by business wives.
The third option is gigolo husbands. Such men do not work just because they do not want to. The wives of such men are ready for anything, if only the beloved husband was next to them. For this kind of housewife husbands, it is unacceptable to get up early, get to the place of work by public transport, waste their precious time and nerves. After all, it is much more convenient to be a housewife husband who can afford to sleep until lunchtime, dine on personally cooked scrambled eggs and lie on the sofa with a TV remote control. In the evening, such a husband can even take out the trash, but then he will go to the sofa again. This particular version of a housewife husband is simply unacceptable. And if at one point the wife stops working for such a gigolo husband, he simply leaves for another, more meek woman.
Housewife husbands are now becoming more common. Of course, for most women, this state of affairs is not acceptable, because a man, by definition, should be a strong earner, and a woman - a weak, in need of care, the keeper of the hearth and comfort in the house. But if both husband and wife are satisfied with this state of affairs, then this is only their choice.
Sanitta
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